I have been bad about updating the boys blog lately. Seems like things are so crazy lately. The boys are doing well overall. Still active and happy and enjoying life. Ryan started kindergarten last month though his current assignment is not working out as we had hoped. He was put in an integrated classroom of 27 kids. I knew it wouldnt work but we wanted to give it a try. Well, it didn't work. We are exploring moving him to another elementary school in the same district where he will be in a smaller class with kids needing "emotional support". It isn't really the perfect fit but it will be better than where he currently is. It is sad b/c we like the school he is at now and the principal, teachers, aids, etc have all been so good to us and Ryan. But, we have to do what is best for Ryan.
The other recent news is the golf tournament that we had last weekend in Sugarloaf, PA at a golf course near the town Carl grew up in and he and his brother Jamie worked at for several summers. Between the tournament and the donations we raised around $40,000 for Team Sanfilippo!!! We couldn't be happier - well we could be happier if this money could help us find a cure!
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Our Journey
For those who don't know our story, our lives were changed forever in 2009. In June 2009, our son Ryan (then 4 years old) was diagnosed with MPS IIIA (Sanfilippo Syndrome). Since it is a genetic disorder, our son Brayden (then 18 months old) was tested and he was diagnosed in September 2009. You can not even prepare yourself for news like this. There were times that Carl and I thought we could not handle it but we know we have to handle it because our boys need us more than ever now. These boys couldn't be more loved by our families and we will all make sure they have the fullest and best lives they can. We have met many wonderful parents who have children with Sanfilippo Syndrome as well as other forms of MPS and their strength and determination inspire us to be strong and to never give up our kids. I saw this writing on another parent's website and wanted to post it here.
WELCOME TO HOLLAND by Emily Perl Kingsley
I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this...
When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip -to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The flight attendant comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland". "Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland? I signed up for Italy. I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."
But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay. The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease.
It's just a different place.
So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people who would never have met.
It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around....and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills...and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy...and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And for some time, the pain of that will never go away...because the loss of that dream is a significant loss.
But, if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things...about Holland.
WELCOME TO HOLLAND by Emily Perl Kingsley
I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this...
When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip -to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The flight attendant comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland". "Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland? I signed up for Italy. I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."
But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay. The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease.
It's just a different place.
So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people who would never have met.
It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around....and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills...and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy...and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And for some time, the pain of that will never go away...because the loss of that dream is a significant loss.
But, if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things...about Holland.